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A Glimmer

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I stumbled upon the television broadcast of the Golden Globe Awards show on Sunday night. Finally, I experienced a glimmer of hope that has been missing for me. My heart swelled when Meryl Streep publicly expressed some of the same sentiments I share about the prospect of our country having a President who displays boorish and bullying behavior.merylstreep

I know there are a lot of people who feel these same concerns, but I just haven’t been seeing the type of response Meryl provided: non-political, public, to a large live audience, and well thought out and articulated. A moment to point out the king has no clothes.

The tweeted response —in itself, a very un-Presidential behavior— was as juvenile as usual, saying Meryl is “one of the most over-rated actresses in Hollywood…”


There are other voices expressing their views of the pending commander-in-chief, like this reference that I saw in Monday’s StarTribune Opinion page commentary:

“But there is no chance that Donald Trump can or will ever represent and nurture our best values, behavior, aspirations and ideals.

 That is the great contrast between Barack Obama and Donald Trump.

It’s an irony, for sure, that Obama — a man of discipline, dignity and intellect — will yield the office to Trump — a man of impulse, vulgarity and demagoguery.”

Dick Meyer Scripps Washington Bureau (TNS)

Reading an opinion piece in the paper doesn’t provide the same rallying hope as witnessing a public message delivered live to a wide audience.

I don’t expect any of this to alter the outcome of having the current President-elect assume the duties of leading the United States of America. His mysterious agenda will play out whether or not the universal public opinion of him suddenly becomes fully aware of who he really is.

What is his weird (scary) love for Russia and Putin all about, anyway?

Didn’t we discover who he really was when we got to hear him disparaging women? When we witnessed him bullying interviewers and other candidates? When we heard him boasting about any and every topic that he was the best, or loved (fill in the blank) more than anyone, whenever he was challenged?

Meryl explains things clearly:

It kind of broke my heart when I saw it, and I can’t get it out of my head, because it wasn’t in a movie. It was real life. And this instinct, to humiliate, when it’s modeled by someone in the public platform, by someone powerful, it filters down into everybody’s life, because it kind of gives permission for other people to do the same thing.

Disrespect invites disrespect. Violence incites violence. When the powerful use their position to bully others, we all lose.

No wonder I have been suffering from a losing feeling lately. The bully is using his powerful position, and we all are paying for it. Disrespect invites disrespect. That’s a chain I would gladly break.

It’s a shame that the chain of disrespect will be starting all the way from the top now.

I hope I can find more occasions with public expressions of views like Meryl shared Sunday night. More than ever, we need to sow seeds of hope and love from the bottom up, to fracture any chains of bullying disrespect coming down from the highest position in this country.














Written by johnwhays

January 10, 2017 at 7:00 am

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  1. On one hand, he is so incredibly thin skinned and his precious ego cares so much what other famous people say and think about him. On the other, perhaps he is a more skilled tactician than we give him credit for… Here we are with everyone focused on Meryl Streep & his Twitter reply while DC rushes through his cabinet confirmations. Perhaps more reputable news sources are keeping up with it, but the average American and his voters? Utterly distracted

    And on that note, I saw a very interesting comment earlier today pointing out that if these repubs truly think they have the country’s best interests at heart and will plot the best path forward… then why with all the media distraction techniques and rush through these confirmations? If all the hand picked billionaires really are the best for their positions, then wouldn’t properly vetting and confirming that be no problem?

    I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t already spent some time googling “Canadian Work Visa” and perused some job listings in Toronto and Vancouver…


    January 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    • Yes, yes, yes. Why these distractions, the rush to confirm, the lack of ethics reports returned? Properly vetting and confirming should be no problem.
      I think it is a valid concern to consider the possibility the public is being played by either a skilled tactician, or a buffoon who is the patsy of a certain foreign power…
      Thanks for your comment.


      January 10, 2017 at 7:02 pm

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