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Homemade Memories
Yesterday, for breakfast, I made toast out of some of Cyndie’s homemade bread. I’m noticing that I’ve been feeling a bit nostalgic lately. Don’t know exactly why that is, but maybe the fact that next weekend is the Hays reunion –summertime version– has me thinking about family of origin.
Homemade toast, which is the way I recall us always referring to it, is something that I associate very strongly with my life in the years of growing up in the Hays family. While I’m on the subject of toast, if the bread wasn’t homemade, it was from a loaf of Hollywood Bread, and of course, we just called it Hollywood toast. I remember being almost as fond of Hollywood toast as Mom’s homemade, but they were very d
istinctly different.
Yesterday, after I cut the bread for toast, I returned the loaf to upright and discovered that had left quite an angle on what remained. I don’t know about the rest of my siblings, but that instantly brings the voice of my father in my mind.
“Who didn’t cut the bread straight?!”
I don’t clearly understand why his admonitions were so feared. Some kids worried that their father would strike them, but I feared my father would speak to me in a gruff tone of voice. I studiously practiced the art of cutting a loaf of bread squarely.
Last night for dinner, I had walleye. Next weekend, our reunion is up at Lake Mille Lacs. That is to say, I had for dinner, the fish that Dad was so fond of, and we are going up to the lake where Dad did his fishing. Ralph is very present in my mind lately.
Mental Manipulation
You can’t put a genie back in the bottle. We are far beyond the point of no return.
You can smile at the person you find yourself with today.
You can choose to do what is right in each situation.
Take a look at the raindrops with awe.
We can see things differently today, from the way we perceived them yesterday.
We can’t undo what has already been done.
We can do something new, something brilliant.
Or something simple.
Problems are rarely simple. They are complex
We like to give problems a name and devise a single solution.
Then we get frustrated when we can’t make it work.
But simple just might be the secret to solving our plight.
Simply consider other ways to look at the world,
Like from within the shoes of another.
Imagine for a minute or two,
If each one of us, weren’t the center of the universe as we know it.
Le Tour Drama
I can’t figure out what it is about Alberto Contador that explains why I find it difficult to appreciate his incredible abilities as a mountain climber. If you don’t know who he is, you have not been paying attention to cycle racing in the last few years. Ever since Lance Armstrong retired from racing, and even after he returned to try again, Alberto has been the strongest climber, and as a result, the man to beat in the big races. So why don’t I like him? I don’t know. But doesn’t every drama need a villain? I will let him be mine. I’m cheering for Andy Schleck, a guy whom I used to hope would fail in his attempts to challenge Lance. Now I wish for him to somehow find a way to out-smart the wily Spanish rider, Contador.
In the race yesterday, they climbed a mountain where the ascent was longer than the distance I ride to work, and they did it at a faster speed uphill than I can ride on flat terrain. I’m pretty sure I could ride faster if people stood on the shoulder of the road along my route and shouted encouragement. Oh, and if they cleared all the cars off the road and let me blow through the intersections, that would help a lot, too.
You know, if I had throngs of excited fans cheering me on during my work day, I think I could accomplish a heck of a lot more than I otherwise normally do.
Unfortunately, my new hero, Andy, suffered a bad shift of gears just as he was kicking in with a monster acceleration at a key moment of the climb. To make it even more heartbreaking, it appeared he was about to achieve a gap on Contador. Instead, he needed to get off his bike to put his chain back on the sprocket, while the group of key competitors raced right on by, countering his attack with one of their own. As they were pulling away, Andy fumbled with his chain and then he needed to put in an incredibly intense effort to limit his losses on the descent. It wasn’t enough, and the overall lead, signified by the honor of wearing the yellow jersey, passed from Andy to Alberto.
Some people question the sportsmanship of attacking a competitor who has been compromised by a mechanical disruption. Right or wrong, as Alberto stood on the podium, in the ceremony which bestows the yellow jersey, he was roundly jeered by the crowd.
Today’s situation didn’t do anything to dispel my disdain for the Spanish leader of Team Astana. Ultimately, I hope the better man wins.
What a Weekend!
My weekend was chock-full of activity. I’d love to tell you all about it, but it was so full, I haven’t got any time left to write. Here are a few images that have little to do with any of my activities, but reflect some of the beauty and bounty I was able to enjoy beyond the bike ride, two restaurants, a couple of movies, some household chores, watching the Tour, and catching a concert at the zoo, (don’t tell Judy I was so close to her, but didn’t have time to visit).
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A Guest Post
When Cyndie asked if she could write a “guest post” today, I was very happy to accommodate her. The Tour de France just keeps interrupting my train of thought this morning… JWH
I’m impressed. John has written this blog for 490 days in a row. Quite an accomplishment… You try it! I can’t imagine the level of dedication, conviction, crazy devotion and brilliance it takes to write for ‘publication’ every day. It all started when he was a kid growing up in Eden Prairie reading Jim Klobuchar’s column in the Star Tribune. Then John tried his hand at writing and publishing a rock and roll magazine. Add in the annual doses of riding his bike with his buddies on the ‘Jaunt with Jim’ (Klobuchar, that is) for 500 miles every summer that stirs his creativity and brings such joy he can’t contain without sharing with others. Add in a small dose of ‘Jim Klobuchar’s admiration‘ of the poem and song John has written in honor of the friends and fun he enjoys on the annual bike trips. The ‘coup de gras’, however, was John’s Nepal trip, again led by Jim Klobuchar, that prompted his commitment to writing a daily blog. So there is an amazing bond and strange connection my husband has developed with Jim Klobuchar that has in essence transcended all reason and led to a continuing legacy of insightful writing. I hope the contagion factor continues as readers of Relative Something continue to pass along the blog address and encourage others to begin reading. It is an amazing gift John offers and I, for one, am grateful for his gift of words and amazing insights shared with those who visit Relative Something. As his wife and best friend, I asked to be a guest writer on his blog because I, too, aspire, to write everyday. He is my true inspiration!
Worth Noting
I will admit being a classic channel surfer when it comes to commercial breaks in programs on television. Maybe that is another reason I like watching soccer so much. There are no commercial interruptions during play. Anyway, Wednesday night I stumbled onto the ESPY Awards Show, and once there, I ended up staying to the end.
You need to realize that I have hardly noticed the ESPY Awards even exist, with the one exception of when Hopkins High School basketball player, Blake Hoffarber, won an award for “the shot.” I hadn’t realized the ESPYs were even on this week, let alone who any of the nominees were. It was a very pleasant surprise to find myself watching the 2010 version, live, as it happened. There were several moments that I judge as better than average.
The first scene I stopped to see was Tracy Morgan doing an audition for “Invictus” in the role of Nelson Mandela. When Will Ferrell appeared, as Jeff Vuvuzela, the inventor of the annoying horn, I knew they were on to something good. With Seth Meyers as host of the awards show, I almost forgot it was for the recognition of athletes and sports. The parody of Sandra Bullock’s movie, “The Blindside,” done with Peyton Manning in a trailer for a movie called, “The Darkside,” was top-notch.
Those were excellent entertainment. But the most precious segment of the night was the presentation of the Arthur Ashe Courage Award to the Thomas Family. This alone makes seeking out a replay of the broadcast of the award show a task worth doing, as the bulk of the story is presented prior to the acceptance speech that can be seen in the current youtube videos available. The story of what the family of Ed Thomas have been through and how honorably they have done so, is something that deserves to be known and taken to heart by all people, far and wide.
Such success as this, finding a rewarding program I had no idea was on, by surfing during commercials, does nothing but further ingrain my habit. I’m sure glad I was doing it last Wednesday night. I hope you get a chance to see the entire piece on the story of Ed Thomas and his family. It is worth noting.
Cycling Subtleties
The month of July, to me, means Tour de France. The attention this particular bike race draws is unmatched by any other, and the camera angles provided on the television coverage are astounding. It feels like you are right there to witness every aspect of this race. If you have ever spent long hours on a bike, you can sense what the professional racers are going through. It adds a lot to the experience of watching the broadcasts of the stages.
There is no denying a positive effect that watching the race inspires in us novices when we get off the couch and out on our own bikes. In our minds, it seems like our riding is pretty much the same thing as what we’ve seen of the race, just on an entirely different scale of difficulty. Those racers function at a level that is worlds beyond what the rest of us experience.
Moving from bike racers to the general population, there is a significant difference of abilities in the full spectrum of bike riders in a community. Too often, I feel like the act of riding a bike gets generalized when it comes to making decisions about design of roadways and trails. The same thing seems to happen for people developing opinions about riders and their behaviors. As I ride my bike to and from work, competing with rush-hour traffic and struggling to navigate the variety of hassles –natural and man-made– that tend to get more annoying each day I face them, I find myself doubting that anyone beyond a select few really understands what it is like.
One obvious hazard is caused by drivers who take offense at sharing the road with cyclists. That is compounded by road shoulders that have suffered from neglect to the point of being unrideable. Many a day of commuting, I find myself wishing I could bring along a city planner on the ride and let them experience what it is like to ride with a purpose, at 16 or 18 mph, and dodge damaged asphalt, sand piles of runoff from rain showers, broken glass and debris, and encroaching overgrowth of vines and tree branches, to finally reach a busy intersection with no button to trigger the light to change.
If I was simply out enjoying a stroll on my bike, I would not likely choose these routes. Kids playing on their bikes don’t ride these routes. Bike trails to the park are a wonderful idea, but they don’t support riding at commuting speeds and rarely lead to the obvious destinations of someone riding to work. I wonder how many of the people who question why a cyclist would ride the road, instead of a trail, in communities where there are many cross streets, have ever pedaled their bike at 18 mph. It’s a no-brainer, trust me.
It may not be the Tour de France, but biking to work can be its own endurance test. I don’t have what it takes to race. Some days, I find I don’t even have what it takes to bike to work. In July, I find plenty of inspiration from seeing what the professionals endure, to help me push on against the relative hazards I face.
There’s More
There is so much more. There’s more to do, more to see, more to say. Sometimes, so much more that it is overwhelming, and appears as too much to deal with. When that happens, one remedy is to just do nothing. Wait it out. Take a breath, lean back, and stare at a cloud for a while. There are plenty more of those to be found…
Photo © 2010 Cynthia A. Hays
Stormin’ Home
Yesterday, I made Cyndie wait to leave the lake place until after the World Cup final, so I could watch the game. I guess it lived up to being a championship match, with neither team being able to get control over the other for more than a split second at a time. I had hoped for more entertainment to lift my spirits. I was suffering from witnessing the implosion of Lance Armstrong in the Tour earlier in the day. Luckily, the soccer game ended up requiring extra time, which delayed our departure even more.
Partway into the extra period, a weather alert flashed across the screen and revealed warnings of a tornado in the vicinity of our drive home. If the game hadn’t gone into overtime, we would probably have gotten caught in some threatening weather. As it turned out, we had waited just long enough for the weather to move beyond our route. However, that presented us with an incredible viewing of the back side of a magnificent meteorological spectacle.
When we reached about halfway home, at Turtle Lake, WI, we found ourselves under sunshine and blue skies, but on both sides of our view, there were fabulous storm clouds billowing high in explosions of energy. Cyndie dug our camera out of my bag and spent the rest of the ride home taking a total of 140 pictures, mostly of the sky.
I think it can be declared a worthy effort. I especially like the ones she captured of the sky behind us, because, since I was driving, I didn’t get to see them the first time.
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. photos by Cyndie Hays






