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Emphatic Change

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I don’t know if you will be able to tell the difference, but I am not writing from home this morning. Cyndie and I are in a completely different location on a lake in northern Wisconsin near a town with a Coop’s Pizza restaurant that serves one of our favorite crust/sauce/cheese combinations.

Okay, we are up at the lake place again. That shouldn’t be a surprise. I just felt a little mystery would be more interesting than the same old, same old this time around.

One thing is very different up here this visit, though, but it is not mysterious at all. The lodge has been reduced to a tiny shell of its old self.

We watched the beginning of the demolition as we left for home two weeks ago. I’m told they are waiting on some permits before new construction gets underway to replace the portion that was torn down. One of the first challenges will be leveling the floor of the remaining historic portion, aligning it with the fixed position of the fireplace and chimney.

There is a wild dynamic at play, as the massive change of the shared space vanishes so dramatically, yet it doesn’t feel like that big of a deal at this point. I believe this community of six families has grown accustomed to this kind of change over the years and understands how it will ultimately lead to positive outcomes in the long run.

I have a sense that the significance of these changes would have bothered me more when I was younger than I am experiencing today. Maybe not, though. I received an early lesson in this kind of change when the farmland where I lived as a kid was sold for development, stripped of its trees, and hills leveled so it could become an industrial park.

At this point in my life, I’m finding it surprisingly easier to accept “progress” that seems inevitable.

Change is always happening. Sometimes, just a little more emphatically than others.

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Written by johnwhays

July 25, 2025 at 6:00 am

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  1. Wowza! That looks so strange! I did not know they were taking out the kitchen as well. Sad to see that history gone, but hopefully it will be better than ever after the build is done.

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    July 25, 2025 at 2:13 pm

    • They thought they were keeping the kitchen but when it was revealed, there was nothing but cheap aging plywood and nothing worth saving.

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      johnwhays

      July 25, 2025 at 2:17 pm


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