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Can’t Control

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If I could, I surely would have the rain refrain from raining on us during the hours when my friends and I want to go for a bike ride today. It is taking a lot of effort to hold my attitude in a healthy place against the unfavorable weather forecast that has been threatening for days to rain out this event we have been preparing to host.

While we were on a walk with Mike and Barb yesterday, Cyndie found a bright red heart-shaped leaf.

A gift from the universe to help us maintain a focus on love despite whatever rain clouds might come our way.

Last night our world was brightened mightily upon the arrival of my biking buddies Bob and Julie in advance of today’s planned ride. Healthy energy combined and magnified as we introduced Asher to them and then took a walk down to see the horses.

The soil is so desperately dry here and the growing plants and trees are so visibly parched that rain showers are needed more than my friends and I need to bike. I can’t control the amount or timing of precipitation falling today but I can control my reaction to it.

If it isn’t raining for the few hours we’d like to ride, that would be just grand.

It seems weird to say it, but if it rains a lot all day, that would be even better.

The “September fall colors ride with John” can be easily morphed into an “eat a lot of great food together, converse, and play games by the fireplace” with John and Cyndie event.

I definitely can’t always get what I want. I really, really wanted to ride with my friends and enjoy the beautiful scenery on the roads nearby.

I want the type of weather we had here during the four days prior. However, the opportunity to have a great time with good people provides priceless value regardless of the arrival of ride-busting precipitation.

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Written by johnwhays

September 23, 2023 at 7:00 am

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  1. You never cease to amaze me… you are at your best confronting adversity, whether it be ice and snow or even a little wind and rain… you might wish for plain sailing (or riding) but relish and cherish your ability to come through almost anything, I reckon. … As my old friends used to say years ago, jokingly, ‘on your bike’!

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    Ian Rowcliffe

    September 23, 2023 at 10:07 am

    • I really had some luck yesterday, being granted a break exactly during the hours needed in order to ride dry. Counting my blessings to have these adventurous friends.

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      johnwhays

      September 24, 2023 at 10:36 am


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