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Table Memories

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Since we didn’t have Thanksgiving dinner at our house this year, my siblings didn’t get their annual chance to be with the old family table, so I am presenting this for their benefit…

I mostly am reminded of trying to do my homework as a schoolboy, when I look at the pattern of dots marking the border of our table. The pencil lead would poke through the paper when you weren’t paying attention and strayed too close to the edge.

The other main memory I have of this table is that it was almost always covered by accumulating newspapers, magazines and old mail, sewing projects, or at the far end, an occasional jigsaw puzzle. There are 5 center leaves available to expand the table to a length that exceeds our present dining room. When Mom allowed Cyndie and I to have the table, she did so with one requirement: we needed to host Thanksgiving, because it was the only table large enough to accommodate everyone when we all gathered.

Now Mom is gone, and some of the family is out of town, so the remaining family has been spending the Thanksgiving holiday with families of spouses. At least that means we didn’t need to clear off the table for a big meal. Lo and behold, it has a sewing project on one end, and fresh home-made holiday treats that Cyndie and Elysa produced over the weekend, on the other.

Written by johnwhays

November 29, 2010 at 7:00 am

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  1. What a fun, warm feeling to see the corner of the table!!! Are there still worn spots from Dad’s elbows?

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    Mary

    November 29, 2010 at 1:46 pm

  2. I don’t know where the expression ‘turning the tables’ comes from but you remind me how central a table can be in our lives. Quite gathering place, such that you touch the table and are reminded of all the wonderful people who sat around it.

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    Ian

    November 29, 2010 at 1:20 pm

  3. Thank You for this Thanksgiving memory post. I think we should have a new tradition of a sibling meal around the family table but in the summer time!
    I have memories of the floor polish machine atop the table and sitting under the table with rag & furniture polish to all the nooks & crannies of the legs – you are maintaining the table legs aren’t you…..As as all the gatherings that have occurred at that table! Miss You

    Judy's avatar

    Judy

    November 29, 2010 at 10:50 am


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