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On Holiday

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The Monday holiday of Labor Day is upon us in the USA, and in honor of it, I will do no laboring. I will miss the morning soccer match since I am still out of town. I will be giving the hammock a workout, instead.

Still looks like summer up here by the flowers...

Still looks like summer up here by the flowers...

Twice this weekend, a situation occurred that involved someone being gone longer than expected, and the question of whether to be concerned, or not, arose. I tend to a default of ‘delays’ not being a reason to become concerned, even though I may be considering it a possibility. I have no idea how to determine when would be the appropriate time to become concerned. If, indeed, the delay was due to an accident or mishap that deserved assistance, I would look pretty bad for my lackadaisical attitude and lack of timely reaction. But maybe that’s just a chance I tend to take.

In both cases this weekend, there was no reason to be concerned. A little phone call to report a delay in schedule is a wonderful thing to do for those who may be waiting on you. In the mean time, until I finally get burned for my tendency not to over-react when someone is taking longer than expected, I will avoid worrying about these kinds of situations.

Don’t be concerned about us today. We will be home in time to make it to work again, by tomorrow.

Written by johnwhays

September 7, 2009 at 7:00 am

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